Because the amount we have gives us plenty of manual dexterity – if we needed more then we would have evolved to have them by now. Who knows, maybe in the future we’ll have extra arms?!
Well, some people actually do, but then they usually then want to get rid of them!
Presumably, the natural selection of the evolution process has determined that these are the optimal numbers. Already many people have difficulty in using two hands independently, just imagine if you had three or four!
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